Thanksgiving 2018: Maui

On Thanksgiving Day, we left at the break of dawn for LAX, and after lugging four carseats, a stroller and all our gear through the airport, we exhaled as we took off on our 8:30 a.m. flight to Maui. We felt like we had conquered the world making our flight with everyone in one piece!

We took up two rows, with Jake sitting by Meredith and Samantha and Amelia and I across the aisle. We took turns tossing Baby Eleanor back and forth, which I’m sure the lady on the end of the row didn’t appreciate, but didn’t say anything.

A very peaceful flight! Amelia and Samantha were great and played games, watched movies and colored the entire flight. Meredith started getting antsy toward the end, but was overall better than expected during the nearly six hour flight. Eleanor had her moments of crying, mostly from being overtired and unable to nap on her normal schedule. Fortunately, we were on a party plane with tons of little kids, so her noise just blended in to the rest of the chaos.

The worst was Eleanor having two blowouts on the plane. Good thing I packed several back-up outfits for her. It’s already tough for Jake to fit in the tiny airplane bathroom himself, let alone to change a baby, but somehow, he did it! Sick of being stuck in their seats by the end…

We were so happy to be off the plane! The heat and humidity hit us with a blast as soon as we stepped off the plane and waited for our bags. All that pent-up energy and hunger finally took its toll and we endured lots of tears and tantrums grabbing our bags and car seats. It felt like an impossible task herding all the kids, bags, four car seats and baby gear through the airport to grab our car, but somehow we made it.

We rented our car through Turo, which is supposed to eliminate the hassle of going to the car rental place and waiting forever since our guy was supposed to pick us up directly outside the terminal. There was some kind of mix up, and we ended up having to lug kids and gear and all through a construction area of the parking lot, waiting for what seemed like forever (fifteen minutes in reality) for the guy to find us. No one was in a good mood when we finally got the car straightened out and I kept thinking how ironic this was that we were all cranky in paradise!

After playing tetris trying to fit all the car seats and bags in the SUV, and dealing with screaming kids, we were about ready to call it a day and go home! In hindsight, we should have just rented car seats from the car rental guy, but I’m always wary of using other people’s car seats and how dirty they are/wondering if they’ve ever been in an accident. Jake was cursing me the entire trip for insisting we lug our own! It certainly would have made the airport 90% more doable.

With a fresh change of clothes, hydrated and fed, and finally on the road, everyone calmed down and enjoyed the lush, green scenery and smell of tropical flowers as we drove to West Maui.

 

After unloading at the condo, we were still on California time and starving, so we walked to Kaanapali Beach for an early dinner at Hula Grill.

I was worried the kids would be too cranky from our long day to handle dinner out, but they did great! Everyone, but Eleanor, that is. Two second after we sat down, Eleanor had the pooplosion of all pooplosions on Jake! And this was AFTER pooping twice on the plane!  It oozed out of her diaper, all over her clothes and Jake’s clothes, and onto the chair! Wipes would not suffice to clean up the epic mess, so Jake left the restaurant with her while I tracked down a waiter who mopped up the mess with nice white cloth napkins! They were so gracious about it and even though the restaurant was full of old people curiously observing our family, no one said a word, although I’m sure they were horrified for us as poor Jake walked out with poop all over himself! NOT how we imagined spending Thanksgiving dinner.

 

Jake was back 30 minutes later. He had to go into one of the shops to buy a new change of clothes for himself after he changed Eleanor.

Happy Thanksgiving 2018! We were sad to miss our annual Friendsgiving with the Erpeldings this year!

After our Thanksgiving turkey dinner, we walked along Kaanapali beach and basked in the warm sunset.

Practicing their hula moves.

We forgive you, Eleanor, for pooping all over the place!

Eleanor didn’t seem to care that we in Maui and wanted to be home in bed, stat!

Whitehead Family Thanksgiving 2018

Enjoying the Maui sunset.

On our way back to the condo, we stopped in the little shops and enjoyed the live music. It was a very festive Thanksgiving!

The next day, the girls and Jake made pancakes at their new favorite breakfast place– Slappy Cakes. They had their own griddle and made their own pancakes with their own toppings– the girls’ dream restaurant! They wanted to go there for all of our meals.

 

The rest of the morning, we hung out at the condo because my breast pump broke! Jake drove a round-trip 2 hours to the island’s only Target to buy me a new one… on Black Friday! Total nightmare situation. Meanwhile, back at the condo, I tried to keep all four girls occupied– we played tennis, walked around, fed the koi fish, went to the beach, and tried unsuccessfully to nap in the condo. Despite the condo being two levels, so that we could split up the girls into separate rooms, the twins were just too wired to calm down enough and the noise kept Meredith up. Needless to say, everyone went to bed early that night and I was at the end of my rope by the time Jake returned from braving the crowds at Target, victorious, with my pump!

Playing tennis until we got kicked out for not wearing tennis shoes.

I picked this particular Air BnB because of all the kids’ stuff they had– everything imaginable! Rock n plays, strollers, pack n plays, baby toys, baby jumpers, bouncers, sand toys, snorkel gear, toys, crafts, movies, board games and snacks. The girls loved it! The kids stuff was great, but the condo was a little smaller than I had anticipated and the air conditioner was set so that you had to turn it back on every three hours… Eleanor woke up every time I got up to turn on the air conditioning at night and was not a happy baby!

Eleanor enjoyed sweet potatoes on her lanai.

 

We go the beach all the time back home, but our water is a lot colder than the warm Maui water. The girls had a blast body surfing.

It was a little windy, but that didn’t stop the girls from playing at the beach all afternoon.

   

Lots of love,

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Thanksgiving Potluck 2018

The twins’ last Thanksgiving potluck was so sweet! I brought Meredith along with me and split my time between both Samantha and Amelia’s rooms since I’m the Room Mom for both. Fortunately, we had lots of moms sign up to help serve the food this time, so it was one of the more relaxed potlucks!

Heating up the dishes parents dropped off, making sure every class had the right dishes and serving it up to dozens of little preschoolers asking for more rolls every five seconds was energy-draining. I don’t know how the preschool/kinder teachers do it all day!

Amelia’s class:

Amelia’s first Thanksgiving potluck in 2016:

Amelia’s Thankful Tree from 2016:

Saying hello to Samantha’s class:

Meredith was so excited to have a place of honor at the head of the table with Samantha. Look at those pilgrim hats! Toward the end, Meredith was starting to get annoying, with the poor kid next to her complaining that she was touching his leg and stealing his food, so I had to threaten her with sitting outside the class. She was the most stressful part of the potluck!

Samantha’s first potluck in 2016:

Samantha’s first Thanksgiving placemat:

2018 placemat:

After all the moms had sampled the food, we cleaned up and I headed out early with the girls. We hosted Great Grandpa for a pre-Thanksgiving dinner since we were out of town on actual Thanksgiving, so the girls definitely got their fill of Thanksgiving food that day!

Stuffed, we headed out on our Maui adventure the next morning!

Lots of love,

 

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Eleanor 5 Months and Baby Blessing

5 Months old and delightful as ever!

Eleanor started solids at 5 months and couldn’t have been happier! She takes 2 long naps and 1 short nap a day and sleeps 7 p.m. to 6 a.m.

Amelia, Samantha, Meredith & Eleanor, 5 Months Old:

Eleanor never rolled over! She’s so content on her back or when we put her on her tummy for tummy time that she just doesn’t see the point of rolling over on her own. That, and she’s so chubby that it’s probably impossible! She’s working on sitting up on her own, but is still pretty wobbly.

Getting too big for her milestone blanket!

 

Eleanor is so interactive and loves to smile and coo at everyone she sees. From her perch in the Ergo carrier, she is obsessed with greeting her fans, especially at school drop-off and pick-up. Random strangers just can’t resist giving her legs a little squeeze or coming up to chat with her– she’s very magnetic!

 

Eleanor loves sweet potatoes, butternut squash and oatmeal!

 

Such a joyful baby!

We finally had Eleanor’s baby blessing on November 15! A few days shy of her 5 month birthday, she was the oldest of any of the other girls to get her baby blessing… I kept having to order dresses that didn’t end up fitting because our chubby baby kept growing out of them! 1 p.m. church is kind of nightmare for her since that’s right in the middle of her longest nap, so we finally decided to have her blessing at home on a weeknight when the Bishop was available.

It was very low key since it was just our family, but it was our favorite blessing ever because the girls listened and got to see the blessing up close! Ironically, even though Eleanor almost NEVER fusses, she was cranky during her blessing, even though it was just at home… argh. Who knows whether she would have been quieter during church, but oh well. Despite Meredith crawling around my lap and banging on the piano and Eleanor crying, Jake kept his cool and gave her a very thoughtful blessing. It was a  peaceful, intimate experience and everyone gave our little angel a little squeeze afterward, even though she was a little fuss bucket!

We finally timed it right so that Eleanor’s custom silk dress fit her before she grew out of it!

Eleanor’s blessing (complete with Meredith banging on the piano, me shushing and Eleanor crying!)

Lots of love,

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November Happenings

After Halloween, Grammy stuck around for a few days and Eleanor took full advantage of all the extra cuddles!

Grammy and girls indulging in their ice cream bar creations at South Swell in San Clemente, right after pizza at Pizza Port.

Meredith started meeting up with a playgroup of other 2016 babies every week. Most of the moms also have a 2018 baby like Eleanor, so in a few years, she’ll have a bunch of friends she’s grown up with!

Amelia and Samantha’s school pictures– first time they’ve looked at the camera for school photos and smiled (sort of).

Fall artwork from kindergarten.

We met up with Lucero, Kennedy and Sebastian at the Spectrum one night to check out the new-fangled play structure and play games at Dave and Busters.

“Bowling!”

Sebastian reached for Amelia’s hand and I almost died. Cuteness!

Meredith requested to ride the ferris wheel with Lucero and Kennedy– I guess they are more fun!

We were so sad to say farewell to our favorite babysitters, twins Charlotte and Claire. We’ve know their family for years and Charlotte and Claire have been the girls’ favorite babysitters of all time. They were a lifesaver during the fall when they came back from school before leaving on their missions, babysitting after school a few days a week for me. Every day, Meredith would wake up from from her nap and ask, “Are Charlotte and Claire coming today! I want to chase Charlotte and Claire!” It was perfect having both of them because one of them would do whatever the twins wanted to do and the other would run around with Meredith. Sometimes they would go out to the park or play games all together. Nice to have options! The girls still ask when when they are coming over to babysit again! Hopefully, they will be able to babysit in a year when they get back, so in the mean time I’ve been placating Meredith by telling her Charlotte and Claire are going to come when they get back from a very long trip!

Charlotte went to Warsaw, Poland and Claire went to Berlin, Germany. It’s the first time these identical twins have been separated by that far of a distance (5 hours!) We still laugh how they are serving in bordering missions. We miss them!

Amelia being silly while waiting for her tennis lesson. She is pretty accurate with her swings!

The twins attended two birthday parties at Pump it Up– a popular choice for kids at school, apparently.

Crazy-eyed Meredith.

Eleanor loves story time before Meredith goes down for her nap.

Maple is always so generous sharing her seaweed snack with Meredith at the park.

A typical crazy Family Home Evening.

Jake worked on refinishing an outdoor table, with Meredith as his crew member. She’s a pretty good sander.

The twins love to show off their Magnatile creations.

Curling hair before a Christmas pajama photo shoot.

Behind the scenes!

 

The weather was so nice that we spent our mornings going on bike rides or picking flowers at the pocket park.

Meredith’s saying of the month was, “I know my colors!” Even if she had identified the wrong color.

I had to get a few more pictures of Eleanor in her poodle skirt costume before storing the Halloween stuff away.

    

Eleanor was so chubby and always so hungry that Dr. Young gave us the go-ahead to start solids at 4 months! We waited closer to the 5-month mark to start oatmeal and then vegetables, but she was definitely ready. She was SO happy to finally have something to eat other than liquid!

The twins were at school during Maple’s 3rd birthday party, but Meredith was so excited to go and celebrate with her dear friend. The party was at Maple’s brother, Parker’s, tae kwon do studio and was so fun! The TKD instructors were very engaging with the kids and Maple did some impressive moves! She even cut her cake with a giant sword, which was pretty much the coolest thing Meredith had ever seen.

Group hug.

Meredith re-connected with her friend, Owen, who lives in our old neighborhood. They were obsessed with hugging each other!

Meredith is normally not shy about hitting at home, but seemed confused that it was actually encouraged at the party!

The hugging game was very entertaining!

Give him some space, Meredith.

All the kids took turns doing their best chop to break a board!

Lots of love,

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