A Week with Grammy Poppins

Last week, all of us got a special treat in the form of Mary Poppins (a.k.a. Grammy) coming from Utah to stay for a week. Can you say peace and quiet time? Leaving to run an errand (or just sit in the car in silence for five minutes) in the middle of the day? Last minute weeknight dates? Not drowning in laundry?   All this and more. Vacation time!

Meredith enjoyed being held  24/7 and is now having withdrawals ever since Grammy left.

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Hanging out with Grammy and wishing she could eat that parfait at Great Auntie Lynn’s.

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While Grammy was here, Jake was in Virginia for a few days for his little brother’s law school graduation from the University of Virginia. Four out of six of the brothers are now lawyers… eek!

I definitely want to tag along next time; we hope to do an American history tour with the girls soon.

Jake with a few of his siblings visiting Monticello during their stay… I was jealous!

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Meanwhile, back at home, Grammy and I were holding down the fort. The twins enjoyed scootering at the park and a morning at the zoo, while I hung out with Meredith, who was wondering where her entertainment for the day had gone.

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Grammy took the twins to the Ocean Institute in Dana Point one morning where they touched starfish (NOT the one whose leg was about to fall off, Sammy informed me), read stories and did some crafts by the sea.

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It was a nice girls weekend while Jake was gone, but my mom and I were grateful to have the extra help, especially at bedtime, when he got back. The dinner-bedtime stretch is just one of those crazy/horrible times where everything seems to converge all at once, and we were tired! Good thing we could look forward to our nightly ice cream and vegging out to watch the entire Dr. Thorne miniseries (by Julian Fellowes of Downton Abbey fame). Ultimately, my mom and I determined it was lacking the kind of moral dilemmas and sophisticated plots of some of the other BBC productions, but it was still entertaining after being braindead from a day talking about “corn poop,” among other enlightening subjects, with the three amigas.

As soon as Jake arrived home, my mom and I escaped for a facial and massage while he took over. Surprisingly, the twins didn’t mention him at all while he was gone, but as soon as he got home, it was, “Daaaaaaadddddyyyyyy!” in ultra-whiny voices all day long.

During the week, we met up with Great Grandpa, Great Auntie Lynn, and Great Uncle Steve for a quick dinner and ferris wheel ride.

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Great Uncle Steve is always a kid at heart!IMG_0004 IMG_2916

Up, up and away.

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More Grammy cuddles for Meredith.

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Jake and I snuck away a few times for our favorite coconut ice cream and acai bowls at Bowl of Heaven, a walk around the lake, and dinner with friends on Friday night. IMG_4946

I switched off with my mom for a few days, taking the twins to a birthday party, a play date with their friend, Grace, at the park, and to their swim, gymnastics and music classes. It was refreshing just being with the firstborns for a change… I can’t even remember what it was like to just have the twins! Samantha and Amelia enjoyed their two-on-one time sans Meredith too.

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Meredith on a nice walk with Grammy and Bandit while we were out playing.

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Meredith’s favorite time of the day. She reminds me of one of those little frog or crocodile toys you wind up and watch their legs spin around in the water. She loves to kick and scoot around!

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Meredith had her 4 month doctor’s appointment (I’ll save her stats for another post, but let’s just say she’s basically an eight month old!) and the twins had to come too to get some of their three year old shots. I was dreading having all three girls get shots at the same time, but the twins didn’t cry at all (they just looked scared for a minute), and Meredith let out a few piercing shrieks before calming down and conking out.

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Loving the attention!

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After staying up late watching Frozen the night before while Jake and I went out, the twins were in full-on tantrum mode Saturday morning, with Samantha rolling on the floor kicking and screaming at one point. As soon as she woke up more rested from a nap and realized Grammy had left back to Utah, the first thing out of Samantha’s mouth was, “Is Grammy missing me?”

It’s a good thing Grammy is a saint, because she probably was, even after all the craziness of that morning and the week!

Next time we see Grammy, it will be on our first road trip to Utah with Meredith. The girls are already counting down the days.

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It’s my first day back on the job solo, and let’s just say that until our trip, all of us will be going through Grammy withdrawals!

Lots of love,

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Sister Bears

Thank you, Meredith, for indulging us with five minutes of photo torture in matching outfits. It will probably be the last time you are able to wear that onesie since you are growing so fast! IMG_0492

Reading break while I was getting Meredith dressed.

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PLEASE…NO…THIS…IS…TORTURE.

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Resigned to her fate.

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Which one of you is which, again?

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The horror!

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Fat as they may be, these cheeks are not for pinching!

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Gahhhhhh!

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Maybe if I play dead they’ll let me go?

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The three little bears.

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SQUEEZING…TOO…HARD.

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So glad I’m in 6-9 month clothes now so that I can’t fit in this anymore!

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Lots of love,

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Off the Clock on Mother’s Day 2016

“Everyone should have kids. They are the greatest joy in the world. But they are also terrorists. You’ll realize this as soon as they’re born, and they start using sleep deprivation to break you.” -Ray Romano

This quote made me laugh, even though I can’t really say I’m living that reality anymore since Meredith, being the star baby she is, has been sleeping 10+ hours at night for the past month. The twins only did that a handful of times their entire first year!

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This Mother’s Day all I really wanted was 48 hours to essentially not be a mom. No one asking me to wipe their bum. No changing clothes for the fifth time after a blowout. No ruthless cycle of meal prep, getting through said meal without clothes smeared beyond repair with food, clean up, and starting the cycle all over again (you’re hungry AGAIN?)

And I got just that. I hope my own mom got a few breaks like that here and there when we were growing up, because the more time goes by, the more I’m amazed and grateful for her hard work and sacrifices. The mom gig is not for the faint of heart and because she did it, that gives me hope I can make it too! I’m not sure I can ever repay her, but hopefully she can at least feel some reward being a Grandma and getting to do the (mostly) fun stuff with the grandkids/laughing at all the annoying things the girls do to me that I probably did to her at some point. Karma!

While I was mostly off the clock on Saturday, Jake and the girls had a blast (no pun intended) at the annual Boeing Rocket Launch contest in Huntington Beach building and launching rockets from soda bottles. Their rocket had one of the longest hang times there… future astrophysicists?

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I had a gloriously peaceful weekend going for an extra long early morning run, lots of novel reading, mani-pedi, lunch with friends and extra time to get projects done at home. The girls were excited Sunday morning to surprise me with crepes, cards and chants of “Happy Mother’s Day” all day long.

Jake did a fine job tending to the motley crew, even though I couldn’t resist jumping in a few times when I knew something was headed for disaster (e.g. trying to throw together a three-course meal with three cranky kids after an afternoon of no naps due to church… pizza at the park it is!)

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Please come back on duty, Mom!

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However relaxing it was to not deal with much of the mundane work of mom life for a few days, there were plenty of details I missed. The random thought-provoking questions about life peppered throughout the day (What does “Let it Go” mean, Mom?) The baby coos and gurgles. The sense of pride watching them hold hands all the way to the park, knowing that despite all the squabbles, they love being each other’s best friends.

These are the things I would miss out on if I weren’t their mom. And I’m so glad I am. You are my people; I love you!

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Lots of love,

 

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Grandma Celestia’s Visit

Grandma Celestia hasn’t traveled to California from Utah since the twins were born due to health issues, so while we see her whenever we are in her neck of the woods, it was fun for the girls to hang out with her in their own turf for a weekend.

Amelia & Samantha showed Grandma Celestia all of their favorite spots and activities, including how to have a proper beach picnic.

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Celestia has written and published several fiction and non-fiction books about her family as well as her own childhood growing up on the Alaskan frontier. She’s always full of fascinating stories and the girls had a great time hearing about Daddy as a little kid.

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Getting artistic.

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The last time Grandma Celestia was in town…

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I miss that double baby stroller!

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Singing and swinging the girls in the hammock in the garage.

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In addition to all her help with the twins on Meredith’s blessing day, it was great having her around to help with Meredith. I gave her the choice of coming to gymnastics and music class with us that week or cuddling baby Meredith at home, and she understandably chose snuggle time with Meredith! Who wouldn’t? It was fun having just the twins again for a little bit and the girls seemed to enjoy being back in our old routine too.

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Meredith’s one-on-one time.

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I commissioned Celestia to paint a little dandelion/butterfly- themed mural in Meredith’s room. She made it all look like a piece of cake, even though painting at that angle for long periods of time is no easy task.

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Painting the twins’ room last time.

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Turned out so cute!

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On the last day she was here, Celestia finished up the mural and took the twins to the park, looking very tired when she got back…

We hope we didn’t tire her out too much and that she’ll be able to visit again soon!

Lots of love,

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